My wife and I, now grandparents, recently bought a pair of 10-speed
bicycles, taking our first ride together since our college days,
we lived on macaroni and cheese and our transportation was entirely
We practiced on the street in front of the house, shaky at first,
looking like a couple of kids learning to ride. We finally managed to
roll around the block on two wheels again, confidence increasing as the
skills and memories returned. Some things you never forget. Like riding
Afterwards, sitting on the front porch, I reflected that this is the
same street where I taught our youngest daughter, Shelly, to ride when
she was only five or six. Young girlsí bicycles were usually pink or
purple in those days, and flower decals were more important than air in
I heard voices floating over from the street, carried on my imagination
through the hot air of a summer afternoon long past, and too seldom
"I canít do it, Daddy."
"You can, Shelly. Iíll hold you until you get going."
Dozens of times I ran in this street behind my young daughter, propping
her up as she peddled, finally letting her go, holding my breath,
allowing her to fall, but never to fail.
One day she wobbled away in something like a straight line, and was up
on her own two wheels. "Thatís it, thatís it, youíre riding! Way to go,
Shelly! Look at you now!"
The street in front of our house went slightly out of focus as I
recalled that event, and I discovered a proud daddyís grin all over my
face, all over again.
Shelly spent most of that summer riding with her friends on this street,
stopping long enough to make announcements: "I skinned my toe, it
"Told you not to ride in flip-flops. Letís take a look, I bet we can fix
"Daddy, the chain came off."
"No big deal, letís take a look, I bet we can fix it."
"Daddy, I need a bigger bike."
"Yes, Shelly, I know you do. Letís take a look."
And then one day, "DadÖI need a car."
This wise old rascal of a street has skinned tender knees, and bruised
young egos. But it has also built confidence, and fostered independence.
This wise old street has allowed our kids the difficult lessons of
disappointment, but it has also provided pathways to success. It has
watched our children grow, and move from bikes to cars. Then it has
watched them grow up, and move from our homes to their own.
This street has seen them return, eventually, with children of their
own. Kids who now draw upon it with chalk. Skate upon it with roller
blades. Ride upon it with pink and purple bikes. And sometimes skin
My wife and I are too old to risk skinning our knees, and our egos are
beyond bruising. We re-learned to ride bicycles Ė carefully, without
falling down Ė on this same street where I taught my daughter to ride.
Some things you never forget.
Other things you must remember to remember. As I did from my porch,
while the old street out front carried kids past our house on bicycles,
peddling their way to the future, and traveling much too fast.
Later, returning from an errand, I parked the car in the driveway.
Across the street were two young girls, about 8 years old. One was on
roller skates, the other had her bicycle Ė pink, with flower decals Ė
turned upside down, wheels in the air.
"Whatís the problem?" I asked from the front yard.
"Chain came off. I canít get it back on."
"Letís take a look," I replied, crossing this street I have crossed so
many times, on so many similar missions, "I bet we can fix it."